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The Sandwich Generation: LPA When Caring for Parents AND Children

15 January 2026
11 min read

The Sandwich Generation: LPA When You Are Caring for Everyone

If you are in your 40s or 50s, you might recognise this life: your children still need you, and your parents are starting to need you too. You are the sandwich generation.

Who is the Sandwich Generation?

You are likely in this group if:

  • You have children (any age) who depend on you
  • You have living parents in their 70s or older
  • You find yourself helping parents with appointments, finances, or daily tasks
  • You worry about what happens when parents decline further
  • You wonder who would manage things if something happened to YOU

The Triple LPA Problem

If you are in the sandwich generation, you need to think about THREE sets of LPAs:

  • Your parents' LPAs - So you can help them when they need it
  • Your own LPAs - So someone can help you if needed
  • Your spouse's LPAs - Because you both carry family responsibilities
  • Why Your Parents Need LPAs

    Without LPAs: You cannot access their accounts, manage their house, make medical decisions, or arrange their care. You have to apply to court.

    With LPAs: You step in immediately as their attorney. No delay, no court costs.

    Why YOU Need LPAs

    The sandwich generation faces unique risks:

    You are carrying everyone:

    • If something happens to you, who pays the mortgage?
    • Who manages the children?
    • Who continues caring for your parents?
    You are the linchpin:
    • Your incapacity affects multiple generations
    • The impact of you being unable to act is enormous

    A Message to the Sandwich Generation

    You care for everyone. You hold your family together. But if something happens to you, everything falls apart.

    Take 30 minutes. Create your LPAs. Help your parents create theirs.

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    Protect Your Whole Family

    You are the one everyone depends on. Make sure you are protected too.

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