Can I Make Power of Attorney for My Elderly Parent?

Can I Make Power of Attorney for My Elderly Parent?

No. You cannot create an LPA for someone else, even your parent. But you can help them create their own.

The Fundamental Rule

An LPA must be created BY the person it is for (called the Donor). Nobody else can create it on their behalf.

Why? Because an LPA is a voluntary grant of authority. The person must choose to give those powers. If someone else could create it, that would defeat the entire purpose.

What You CAN Do

You can help your parent by:

1. Starting the conversation "Mum, I have been thinking about what happens if you ever need help managing things. Have you considered an LPA?"

2. Explaining what an LPA is Many elderly people do not understand LPAs. Explain in simple terms.

3. Helping with the paperwork You can fill in forms on their behalf, as long as they:

• Provide the information
• Understand what is being recorded
• Sign the document themselves

4. Being named as their attorney This is often the whole point - they create the LPA naming YOU.

What If They Cannot Create One Themselves?

If your parent lacks mental capacity to create an LPA:

• It is too late for an LPA
• You must apply to the Court of Protection
• The court appoints a Deputy (which could be you)
• This takes 6-12 months and costs significantly more

Helping a Reluctant Parent

Many elderly parents resist the idea of LPA. Common concerns:

"I do not need it" - Explain that it is insurance for the future "You are trying to take over" - Emphasise they keep control "It is too complicated" - Offer to handle the paperwork "It costs too much" - Compare to Court of Protection costs

The Best Approach

Help your parent understand that creating an LPA:

• Keeps THEM in control (they choose the attorney)
• Protects THEIR wishes
• Prevents strangers making decisions
• Avoids expensive court processes

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Help Your Parent Create Their LPA

You cannot do it for them. But you can guide them through it.

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